Written for https://lindaghill.com/2026/11/13/the-friday-reminder-and-prompt-for-socs-november-14-2026/
When I was a kid, I always felt different from other children. I found it difficult to socialise; mostly speaking to new friends. Even as a child, I loved reading. The library provided a place where they could leave me in peace.
Through training at school, I realise that what I saw as being different was me masking. Practicing conversations before they happen. Doctors often misdiagnose girls because they are more social and show symptoms differently. They are better at hiding their nervousness.
Boys do not mind being anti-social.
Despite not having a crowd of friends, I celebrate those closest to me.
At secondary school, on my first day, I found the courage to speak to another student. I am not sure why. Although I am glad I did. We have been best friends for forty-eight years.
Even when she moved abroad, with her family, we kept in touch via airmail. Now on What’s app, despite the distance, it is like we are a few minutes away.
I love her like a sister – my bestie.
