Family

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I love meeting up with family at Christmas because it is a chance to catch up over party snacks and splendid company. It is our family tradition to see each other a week before the actual day. My big brother or my niece will be responsible for the food. We don’t really drink much anymore, so we have lots of coffee and tea instead.

It is brilliant to spend time with my big brother – there are ten years between us and I will always be his little sister. I am fifty-seven, but still settle into my role as the youngest.

Sausage rolls, baguettes, cooked meats, pineapple and cheese on sticks, cheesecake, fruit cake, mince pies, whipped cream and a lot more. Although, I am not fond of mince pies or that type of fruit. Last year, my brother disguised some mince pies with icing on top. It was only when I covered it with cream I realised my mistake. I ate it all, but under duress. If I closed my eyes, the cheese cake would take away the taste.

It is like we have only seen each other the day before. We settle into our family routine. It is like we have never been apart. We laugh, chat, and the months seem like days.

We think of those who have passed away; especially my big sister. As siblings, there is a close bond. A classy lady, she was always there with expert advice and love. It is as though she is sitting in the chair opposite with a smile on her face while me and my brother sit next to each other on the sofa.

It is one of the best days of my year.