Written for https://lindaghill.com/2025/06/13/the-friday-reminder-and-prompt-for-socs-june-14-2025/
As a young woman, I liked to drink (whisky and lemonade).
Primarily, it provided me with social confidence; I would otherwise find such situations challenging. I either speak impulsively, or am too shy to share. Lately, I’ve considered that I’m on the spectrum.
Through training at work, I’ve discovered that many girls go undiagnosed because the tests target boys. I hadn’t even heard of masking in autistic females, and this is something I’ve engaged in my whole life.
I enjoy the odd tipple, but it is rare these days. My husband received some malt for his sixtieth two years ago, and we haven’t finished it yet. Even when I finished my GCSE Math exam, a celebratory reaction didn’t cross my mind.
Yesterday, I celebrated my son’s birthday with a meal shared with family, and a Colin The Caterpilla (Marks and Spencers themed chocolate cake). What else can you get when he turns twenty-nine?
We enjoyed a brilliant evening out with him, my daughter, her partner, my granddaughter and his best friend. I preferred an alcohol free cider as it was a warm evening, and with lots of ice, it felt more cooling.
Next year my son turns thirty – now that deserves a party.
Sounds like a beautiful time! I had to look up Marks and Spencer Cakes and it took me to their Facebook page. Wow, lucky for me its literally an ocean away! Looks amazing.
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It is, but has many other companies that copy lol.
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Colin the Caterpillar cakes are the best! 🙂
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They are 🧁
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Great post Diana, and the celebration with Colin the Caterpillar was inspired.
I always made a punch if I was hosting a party, the secret of which was the tops ups was only lemonade so it got weaker as the evening went on.
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That makes sense. Some punches are lethal.
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The nice thing was nobody noticed, or had a hangover next day.
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🥰
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I have always said Diana you don’t need to drink to enjoy yourself 💜💜💜
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Exactly 🥰
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Had to look that cake up! Bet it was delish!
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It was a delicious cake.
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I love those caterpillar cakes!
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So do I.
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Sounds like a wonderful time, Diana!
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🥰🙂
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What a lovely share, Diana.
And I think there are many women (and men) our age who went through life, not knowing and discovering it now.
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Yes, they didm
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I drink socially but I have not had one in over 18 months now! Happy birthday to your son! X
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Thank you, thirty next year that’s frightening.
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