Name Blindness

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I have trouble remembering names.

Working in a school, there are many I have to remember. Teachers I perceive as easier because if I cannot recall from a previous meeting, I am able to just say miss or sit and avoid punishment with it. When it is a child, that is more challenging. If they are similar in looks, or sitting in another place, their first name is a mystery.

I can recognise a face, but it is helpful to understand where from.

Conversations with people who recognise me, but I can’t figure out from where I met them, are commonplace. They ask about my children, offer facts a friend would give, yet when they leave, my mind remains blank.

At home, my family understands I might not get their identities right. More often than not, they could get called by the dog’s given name.

I am not sure why I am like this, but it isn’t about being rude and not familiarizing myself with who they are.

Published by writerravenclaw

I am a fifty something mother of two grown up children, and one beautiful grandchild. I have been married for nearly thirty-four years. My first book was published ten years ago. I wrote my book Sticks and Stones because of my experience of being bullied at school.

15 thoughts on “Name Blindness

  1. Hi Diana I am not saying this is your problem but I couldn’t resist looking up your not remembering names and came up with this. You could look it up.

    Anomic Aphasia/Dysnomia:

    • This condition primarily affects the ability to recall words, names, and numbers.
    • Speech remains fluent, and understanding of language is not impaired.
    • Individuals with anomic aphasia often use circumlocutions (talking around the word) to express the name they can’t remember.
    • They may also be able to recall the name with the help of cues. 

    hugs willow 🤗🤗🤗

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  2. Willow beat me to it. Don’t beat yourself up. Some cannot remember faces at all, whereas you can remember some. I don’t know how many tricks out tbere could help you but it might be worth looking into.

    Take care!!

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